Preschool
and school are very different. Preschool has a higher staff-child
ratio and is usually a cosy and caring atmosphere. School has larger
buildings, a more regimented routine, larger and older children,
with more noise and congestion. To a child these differences are
important and can question their sense of security.
An
important element in deciding School Readiness is asking yourself
whether your child is emotionally mature enough to start school.
You should also consider the length of their attention span. Ask
yourself these questions:
- Is
your child eager to participate, wanting to learn?
- Are
they interested, motivated and confident?
- Are
they willing to attempt new experiences?
- Can
your child co-operate with other children?
- Are
they able to handle the rough emotional trials - cliques &
name calling - that is usually part of school life?
- How
do they handle these situations? Do they react by either falling
apart or becoming a bully?
- Can
they negotiate with friends?
- Is
your child able to respond to all adults? A lot of schools rely
on volunteers to help in the classroom. It is essential that your
child has learnt to listen and respond to adults who are not their
parents.
- Can
your child handle large group situations?
- Can
your child sit still for 10 minutes?
- Can
they do it in a group of 15-30 other children?
- Can
they go to the toilet independtly?
- Can
they handle their lunch and look after their own belongings?
The Get Ready For School Program is designed to develop age-appropriate self-care, play and
school related skills. One of the focuses is on developing concentration
times when school children need to learn to sit quietly and work
on various projects.
Children
will develop academically at different stages but if there are too
many children in the classroom who can't sit quietly, aren't keen
to learn, respect their fellow classmates, their teachers and other
adults in the classroom then much learning will simply never happen.
Is
Your Child Concerned About Leaving Pre-School To Start Big School?
You
can downplay their apprehension about leaving their preschool &
starting kindergarten by some positive reinforcement and having
them focus on some of their personal strengths.
- Pick
out some of the skills on the list above and reassure them that
they would be a good student because they already know (for example):
- their
ABCs
- how to count
- how to write and spell their name
- Point
out they have friends in preschool so making new friends would
be easy in big school.
- Reminding
them that they may be a great tree climber or good at catching
a ball, etc, will also help.
- Take
photographs of your child's new school and glue them into their
Get Ready For School workbook.
That way, when they are showing Grandma or other family members
all of their work they will also be able to proudly show off their
new school.
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